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There's a particular kind of silence that happens when you admit you miss something you were supposed to be glad to be rid of.

There's a version of "figuring your life out" that we've all absorbed without really questioning where it came from — the big move, the bold quit, the dramatic before-and-after with a caption that starts with "one year ago I was..." It's compelling content, I get it. It's satisfying to watch someone blow up their life and land somewhere better. But if I'm honest, almost none of my actual right decisions this year have looked like that. They've looked incredibly boring from th