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For a long time, I waited to feel like someone I could trust. I thought self-trust was supposed to show up the way confidence does in the movies. One morning you'd wake up certain. You'd make decisions without polling six people first. You'd stop rereading your own texts before hitting send. There would be a calm in your chest that said, I've got this, and you'd believe it. I waited for that feeling for years. It never came. And here's what I finally figured out: it was never